Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Virtual Book Tour: The Truth, Diary of a Gutsy Tween Excerpt (and Giveaway)

I am pleased to participate in this virtual book tour featuring The Truth, Diary of a Gutsy Tween by Dr. Barbara Holstein. Thank you to Goddess Fish Promotions for organizing this tour. Please look for an excerpt from the book, author autobiography and a giveaway drawing for a $20 gift card to Amazon or B&N! Best of all, you might find your next read or the next read for a tween you know!

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"I hate Angela and I wish she would move away tomorrow!" "I get so worried when I hear my parents fighting at night." "My mother thinks my crush is silly. I know I am in love!" "I have so many questions about growing up. Who will answer them?" "I feel so awful when Jake makes fun of me." "When I grow up I going to remember how to have fun with my kids and never look away." Growing up is tough. Adults don't always understand you (even though they were once kids), and children today face increasing pressure to be, look, or act a certain way. Written in the voice of a girl on the cusp of becoming a teenager, The Truth provides young girls with an opportunity to see how a girl, who is in many ways like themselves, handles her toughest problems and most personal thoughts. Each new page brings forth a discussion to help girls handle everyday problems: How do you survive a bully? How do you handle a crush on a boy? What can you do about relentless teasing by your peers? What really matters as you grow older?

In a positive and supportive diary-entry format, Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein encourages tween girls to carry the most precious parts of themselves into adulthood. A great book for mothers and daughters to read together, The Truth is aimed to improve communication, understanding, and self-esteem for young girls as they enter the rocky road of teenager-dom.

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Barbara will be awarding $20 Amazon or B/N GC to a randomly drawn winner via rafflecopter during the tour

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Excerpt From The Truth, Diary of a Gutsy Tween:

Date: June 27

Dear Diary,

I can’t believe it. Today we moved, and I feel like I’m in a dream. I just keep walking around our new house and wondering when we will go home. It feels so different and strange. Everything is on one floor (that’s called a ranch house). The floors are all bare wood. My mom said our rugs would look terrible here so she let the people who bought our old house keep them. I think she was probably right. They were a dark maroon and the walls here are a light cream. I don’t think that would look good. I went to the bathroom three times since we got here and every time I used a different bathroom. I can’t believe it. Three different toilets in the same house! Only my friend Susan, my rich friend, had more than two bathrooms in her house. And four bedrooms! And a family room. I can’t believe we have this much space now.

When I look out of the windows I expect to see the shrubs and the Hudson’s house who were next to us on the left, but I don’t. Instead, I see a big open field that will probably have houses built on it by next year. That’s what my dad said anyway. And when I look out to the right I expect to see our clothesline and the Dixon’s driveway, but instead I see rose bushes and a wooden bench under a tree that the last owners said we could have.

Tonight, we had to eat supper off paper plates and use plastic forks, knives, and spoons because our boxes are still packed. My aunt made us a big picnic basket full of food and that’s what we ate for supper. It was delicious. There was fried chicken, potato salad and potato chips, cupcakes for dessert, and fruit salad. And at the bottom of the basket under the ice was a whole package of Hershey Kisses. Yum!

My brother already started to play with a kid next door who’s about a year older than he is. He’s so lucky. I have no new friends yet and that’s the truth!


About the Author Barbara Holstein:


The following is an autobiography from author Barbara Holstein... 

I have been a positive psychologist in private practice for the past thirty years. In the course of working with my clients, I originated the idea of THE ENCHANTED SELF(R), a positive psychology therapy where I teach people how to recognize and utilize their strengths, talents, skills and even lost potential. I have developed a number of methods, including using our memories to rediscover what is right about ourselves and our lives, rather than what went wrong, helping people to overcome adversity, experience positive emotions and live the good life!

Since developing this concept, I've been able to use many tools to bring the Enchanted Self to everyone, particularly women and girls. I've written many books, starting with THE ENCHANTED SELF, A Positive Therapy, and then Recipes for Enchantment, The Secret Ingredient is YOU!  My books for girls are very popular, as they are great fictional reads and also help deal with many of the questions that trouble kids as they move into the tween and teen years.  The Truth, Diary of a Gutsy Tween and Secrets, Diary of a Gutsy Teen are the first two books in this series.

I really love to teach and educate about happiness and how to benefit from positive psychology in ways that let us lead lives of meaning and happiness. You can find me all over the place on the web. In particular, www.enchantedself.com, www.thetruthforgirls.com, on Facebook at Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein: Psychologist & Author, on Pinterest  and on You Tube. Just look for me on You Tube via Barbara Becker Holstein.

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Sunday, March 1, 2015

Sister India Features Spirituality and Sex (Author interview and Giveaway) #Indianovel

Sister India tells the story of compelling characters on a journey who find themselves in a guest house in the sacred Indian city of Varanasi. The novel features vignettes that give peeks into the characters past and what led them to this point. The book touches on travel, racism, religion, romance, sensuality, violence, and many other topics. It is fascinating and at times painful and sometimes hopeful.

I received a complimentary copy of Sister India to facilitate this post. The author Peggy Payne has graciously offered one lucky Enjoys & Shares reader a copy of Sister India.

Sister India's main protagonist is an obese American woman who distances herself from her painful past by immersing herself into her new life in India and by soothing herself with food. The story takes a turn as she starts to heal and finds love in an unlikely place.

The mesmerizing descriptions of Varanasi, India and the varied, complicated characters make Sister India a fascinating read.

Enter to Win a Free Copy Sister India by Peggy Payne

Be sure and check out the book summary information and my interview with author Peggy Payne after the giveaway widget. In addition, to the giveaway Peggy Payne has offered a free 20 page mini e-book, At Sea With My Writing: A Novelist Cruises to Book Deals, to anyone who emails her a request. Her email address is: peggypayne@peggypayne.com.

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Summary Sister India by Peggy Payne:

The exotic and suspenseful New York Times Notable Book that tells the story of an eccentric guest-house keeper in Varanasi, India, and the passions evoked by her sacred city along the Ganges

The Lonely Planet recommends the Saraswati Guest House, and meeting Madame Natraja, "a one-woman blend of East and West," as well worth a side trip. Over the course of a weekend, several guests turn up, shocked to encounter a three-hundred-some-pound, surly white woman in a sari. Then a series of Hindu-Muslim murders leads to a citywide curfew, and they unwittingly become her captives. So begins a period of days blending into nights as Natraja and her Indian cook become entangled in a web of religious violence, and their guests fall under the spell of this ancient kingdom--at once enthralled and repelled by the begging children, the public funeral pyres, the holy men bathing in the Ganges at dawn.
This is a traveler's tale, a story about the strange chemistry that develops from unexpected intimacies on foreign ground. And Peggy Payne's extraordinary talent vividly conjures up the smells of the perfume market, the rhythms of holy men chanting at dawn, the claustrophobic feel of this ancient city's tiny lanes, and the magic of the setting sun over the holy Ganges. For anyone who has harbored a secret desire to go to India and be transformed, Sister India, called "mesmerizing" by Gail Harris and "a modern version of E. M. Forster's classic A Passage to India" by Dan Wakefield, takes you on this journey without ever leaving home.
Print Length: 320 pages
Publisher: Riverhead Books (February 5, 2002)
Sold by: Penguin Group (USA) LLC
ISBN-10: 1573229105
ISBN-13: 978-1573229104


Interview With Author Peggy Payne!

I was fortunate that Peggy Payne agreed to a mini-interview to give us a little insight on her work...

Q: What inspired you to write Sister India? How did you come up with Estelle?

I decided that I wanted to set a novel in Varanasi because I was thinking of what to write for my second novel and I really wanted to go to that holy city on the bank of the Ganges. I'd been a travel writer before writing fiction and had a trip there scheduled that was cancelled because of monsoon flooding. (I'd been to India the first time for a Society of American Travel Writers convention.) The thought of going to Varanasi -- and the images of the old maharajah's palaces along the waterfront --was still with me years later, and so I applied for a fellowship to sponsor my research. The one I got sent me to India to spend 3 months in Varanasi. It was like having an extra life -- an Indian one -- tucked inside my regular life.

The research I did while I was there was to take notes of everything I saw, felt, heard during my time there. I wanted to be able to set all kinds of scenes in lots of different kinds of locations in the city. I also did a lot of reading about the history and about Hinduism and did some interviewing.

I didn't come up with the character of Estelle until I got back home. It made me very nervous that I came back home without knowing anything about the plot of the novel I was going to write. About 2 weeks later the first line of the book and the voice of Estelle/Natraja had popped up in my head.

Q: I notice that on your website you refer to your work as “novels of sex and spirituality”, please explain a little what you mean…

A: These two subjects rarely combine in novels. They're generally considered 2 different types of readers, but I think that they are importantly related, that both take us out of ourselves and can give moments of feeling connected with something larger.

Q:I read that you applied your husband’s interest in clinical hypnosis caused you to learn much that you applied to Sister India, would you tell us a little more about that?

A: My psychologist husband's specialty of clinical hypnosis was essential to me because I felt that the attraction of the Ganges was hypnotic and the maze of narrow lanes was like a physical image of a deepening trance. I wanted the language of the book to sometimes take on the rhythm and flow of a hypnotic induction or an incantation.

Q: Would you tell us about some of the awards Sister India has received? What kind of reception have you had from readers?

A: Sister India was a New York Times Notable Book of the Year. Here are some of the quotes from reviews, etc.

Sister India is a traveler’s “mesmerizing, hypnotic story,” says the creator of PBS’s Body & Soul Series, “of discovery and redemption.”

“From the novel’s very first sentence, her ravaged voice grips the reader.”
The New York Times

“A poetic mosaic of sights, smells, sounds, and tastes”

“Benares Silk: West-meets-East defies the oriental stereotypes in an American’s
novel set in India’s holiest city.”
India Today International (a 2-page spread on the book)

“So very relevant to our times”
Benazir Bhutto
Former Prime Minister of Pakistan (from an email she wrote me)

“…Pits the ineffable demand of the spiritual against the pragmatic concerns of the worldly.”- New Age Journal

Payne writes with a sure, graceful hand, moving her characters from fearful isolation to connection, from awakening to redemption.”
The Charlotte Observer

Sister India is a book of wisdom, even, one wants to say, of enlightenment.”-
The Independent Weekly

People tell me that they felt as if they'd been in India while reading the book. Some wonder why I chose a main character who was so fat. (That's how she first popped up in my head, and I think it was a way to deal with the eating disorder that I had any years earlier.)

Q: For readers who enjoyed sister India, tell us a little about your other work…

A: All my novels have sex that enhances the characters' spirituality. All of them have some element of the supernatural. My other two novels are:
  • Revelation, a New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice, which is about a minister who hears the voice of God and is thrown for a loop by the experience.
  • Cobalt Blue, winner of a 2014 IPPY for Visionary Fiction, about a woman who has a spiritual experience that at first makes her out-of-control with sex.
I've also written for publications including Cosmopolitan, Travel & Leisure, Family Circle, More Magazine, Ms. Magazine, Coastal Living, etc. I blog at Huffington Post and on my own site, www.peggypayne.com/blog, on the subject of the intersection of sex and spirituality. I'm co-author of The Healing Power of Doing Good. I'll also send my 20 page mini book, At Sea With My Writing: A Novelist Cruises to Book Deals, to anyone who emails me a request. I'm at peggypayne@peggypayne.com.

Where to Find Peggy Payne on the Web

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